Posted on October 29, 2006
Schmooze and Schmooze Well
by Nick Urbani
Susan RoAne took a new angle at networking when she said, “It’s not what you know or who you know, but who knows you.”
Schmoozing can only bring upon positive things: new clients, job offers, entrepreneurial ideas, and the opportunity you have never thought of. It is a critical factor in becoming successful, in whatever terms that may be.
Continually use these tactics and your connections will grow without limits:
1. Obey JFK
JFK infamously said, “Ask not what you country can do for you, butâ€¦.” we all know how it goes. In schmoozing, focus on discovering what you can do for someone else.” This is 80% of the battle.
2. Follow Up
Once you’ve found what you can do for that person, DO IT. It may be forwarding a great article for them, connecting them with someone you know, or letting them borrow one of your books.
Always follow up with an email within 24hours–always include a “P.S.” in the email relating something personal about them that you talked about when you met. If you don’t have anything to “p.s.” about then you didn’t ask good questions and you didn’t listen enough.
3. Ask Intelligent Questions, then Shut Up and Listen
Ask questions related to their interests, field of study, career, etc. Specifically ask thoughtful open-ended questions that cannot be answered with a yes or no.
After someone stops speaking use the 3 Second Rule and pause for 3 seconds. It will eliminate the chance of interrupting the person–one of the worst things you can do in establishing a relationship. You will often find that at 2 seconds they were just gathering their thoughts and they will keep talking. It also shows that you are hanging on their every word, raising their self esteem.
4. Read Voraciously
Be Worldly. Know a little bit about everything. The more information you can access in conversations, the greater your opportunities to emotionally and intellectually connect with another person. This is the easiest way to establish trust and credibility with someone you do not know.
5. Go Do It
Go Schmooze. You can’t schmooze from the computer you are sitting in front of. Force yourself to go to presentations, seminars, conventions, events, tradeshows–anything. There are several online calendars of events in your city (you know how to use google, don’t you?). Its unlikely you’re going to land a huge client or get a job offer from someone you met online so go make some eye contact.
6. I’m blogging way past my bedtime so here are a few other quick ideas:
Talk about your passions (only talk about business at a business conference and no one will remember you)
Have a business card (if you want old, rich, famous, and powerful people to contact you make it easy to be contacted–also, you don’t need to work for a business to have a business card)
Give favors (people will like you more)
Ask for favors (once you’ve completed a couple cycles of give and take with someone you are now friends)
Bottom Line- Start now and practice on everyone. When you start off the power of schmoozing will not be apparent, but each and every additional contact you add exponentially increases the amount of people that know you.
Posted on October 27, 2006
So Josh and I work at KPBS (TV and Radio Broadcasting) as IT Systems Administrators, and last week we had a little bit of fun with our buddy Cole.Â Before leaving the office he asked us if we found any extra boxes from our recent server upgrade, to save them for him.Â Well, we did a little bit more than that for him.Â We moved every single box we could find into his cubicle, and completely boxed him in.Â I’m sure anyone who sits in a cube or server room all day can appreciate this…oh, and if you’re reading this…sorry Cole![photopress:DSC04008.JPG,thumb,pp_image][photopress:DSC04007.JPG,thumb,pp_image][photopress:DSC04006.JPG,thumb,pp_image][photopress:DSC04005.JPG,thumb,pp_image][photopress:DSC04004.JPG,thumb,pp_image]
Posted on October 27, 2006
Check out a quick clip from a podcast interview with Nick. This was at a North County Chamber of Commerce mixer event, taken from the Magic In Words podcast. If you’re interested in SEO, this is the guy to listen to![audio:nickclip2.mp3]
Posted on October 24, 2006
This article was written by my good friend Nick Urbani (a fellow AO/AKPsi member).Â I have know this guy for nearly three years and entered into some of the craziest business ideas with him…I know he has success in his future.Â Take his expertise in SEO.Â This is a brand new, evolving field.Â Excelling in it requires dedication and flexibility, and Nick has plenty of both.Â His article offers some interesting insight into the field of Search Engine Optimization, and it is currently in the running for a $5000 grand prize in a contest through MarketingPilgrim.com. You can read the article below, but please visit THIS LINK to help support his article! And now, without further ado…
The SEO Article You Shouldn’t Read
By Nick Urbani.
This may not be what you want to hear, but your tricks, tips, and techniques do not matter. Even if you all like to sport your white hats, your ace-in-the-hole top-secret tactic is useless. Lets be honest with each other–its ok no oneâ€™s listening. Your newly discovered SEO trick isnâ€™t really earth shattering or even ground breaking. Is there anything really new to SEO?
Posted on October 24, 2006
Thanks for visiting! This site is an attempt to shed some insight into a few young professional adult’s views of the current state of Technology, and being graduating college students…some interesting diversions along the way. My intentions are to make a this a community project, with relevant contributions from like minded friends. Being college student’s with success in mind and using technology and knowledge as a stepping stone to achieve it, we have been told that we hold the keys to the future of the industry. This blog is intended to find out just what kind of lock our keys will open. Personally, I’m beginning my job search and starting my future career, and maybe writing about the process will help me along the way. With that being said, enjoy the site, contribute if you are interested, and wish us luck!